Confuse

是我太多心，还是你又再骗我？
一次又一次，我不懂那句是真哪句是假。。
叫我相信你，我办不到，
一次又一次的伤害，你叫我怎么能办到
你给我的承诺，一次也没办到
我也希望你能变好，可是每次失望更大
是我对你的期望太多吗？
你爱我所以你骗我？
知道真相后的伤害更大!


离开好呢，还是留下？
每天吵闹也不是办法。
每天怀疑让自己更痛苦。
也许离开是最好的办法，也是一种解脱。。
但这么多年的感情，怎么说离就离？

须要冷静思考，这段婚姻还剩下设么。

His Affair

From his msm,
Not 3rd party, but 4th party now....

慧萍 李 said:


我不知道昨晚發生甚麼事~~~竟然很莫名其妙的...我打電話給你, 首先是接起電話沒出聲....接著第二通有女人的聲音接聽,又傳簡訊給我....問我到底要從你那得到甚麼?第二簡訊又說她不是你老婆,又直接打電話過來給我說是你女朋友yuki....問我為什麼傳簡訊給你....我真的對你到底是怎樣的一個人~~~我不明白..我也在懷疑我真的笨到如此嗎??


你厲害~~你贏了~~我竟然是被你 耍得團團轉~你的記性真好..可以把我說的話套用在這個時候~~我不知道你的目的是甚麼!!但如果是要把我弄傷的話~~你成功了!!因為你~~我真的受傷了!!

Count your calories

Got this from workplace telling us not to overeat...

A savvy snacker budgets his calories and focuses on quality rather than quantity. Here's a list of Chinese New Year goodies and their calorie content.

- 1 whole mandarin oranges (60g) 28 calories
- 2 pieces of kueh bangkit (10g) 38 calories
- 1 piece of nian gao (20g) 46 calories
- 2 pieces of love letters (26g) 112 calories
- 1 handful of peanuts (20g) 113 calories
- 1 handful of cashew nuts (20g) 116 calories
- 2 pieces of cashew nut cookies (24g) 124 calories
- 2 pieces of pineapple tarts (50g) 164 calories
- 1 handful of prawn rolls (45g) 228 calories
- 1 slice of pork bak kwa (57g) 229 calories
- 1 handful of melon seeds (45g) 251 calories

My favorite highlighted in pink...
hmm...they are belonging to the high calories group ba..

Signs He's Cheating

Taken from somewhere, not sure where...


If you suspect your partner hasn't been faithful, there are usually warning signals to look out for. And according to marriage counselor and author of The Truth About Cheating M. Gary Neuman, who surveyed 200 cheating and non-cheating husbands, men who are involved in extra-marital affairs do share some similar traits:

He spends more time away from home. 55 percent said more time spent away from home was a sign that they were close to infidelity, and this rose slightly to 61 percent when they were involved in infidelity.

You have lesser sex. 34 percent of men reported diminished sexual activity as a sign that they were close to infidelity, and it increased to 43 percent once the affair began.

He avoids your phone calls. 29 percent of men admitted to avoiding their partners' cell phone calls when they were on the verge of infidelity, and this dipped slightly to 24 percent when they became involved in an extra-marital affair.

He criticizes you more. 25 percent said they started criticizing their wives, and this decreased to 19 percent once the infidelity began.

He starts more fights with you. 20 percent said they had more quarrels with their wives.

What's interesting, Neuman points out, is that the majority of the men started displaying these warning signs before they cheated. So they indicate not only that a husband is cheating but are also a precursor to his cheating.

"Remember, it's not proof that he's cheating, but it's pretty clear that he's close, and there should be no waiting on talking about changes to make your marriage better quickly," he adds. "If you can catch the signs in time you might avoid the pain of infidelity and be able to repair your relationship," Neuman concludes.

Credit card

Someone tried to make online purchase using my credit card today.
Received 6 sms, 4 around 2 plus am and 2 around 6 plus am to verify secure code sent via sms.
Meaning that person's attempt was not successful. Lucky...

Called DBS to block the card, i was told that the 6 attempts were to purchase some "Apple" stuff?
Not sure, haha, cos I only heard apple..

Hmm..worse thing was I did not lose my credit card...meaning? Someone hacked to my computer??? Someone know my credit card no while I tried to make online purchase?
hmm...scary...

曹格-背叛

作詞：阿丹/鄔裕康　作曲：曹格　編曲：涂惠源


雨　不停落下來　花　怎麼都不開

儘管我細心灌溉　你說不愛就不愛　我一個人　欣賞悲哀

愛　只剩下無奈　我　一直不願再去猜

鋼琴上黑鍵之間　永遠都夾著空白　缺了一塊　就不精采

緊緊相依的心如何Say goodbye　你比我清楚還要我說明白

愛太深會讓人瘋狂的勇敢　我用背叛自己　完成你的期盼

把手放開不問一句Say goodbye　當作最後一次對你的溺愛

冷冷清清淡淡今後都不管　只要你能愉快

心　有一句感慨　我　還能夠跟誰對白

在你關上門之前　替我再回頭看看　那些片段　還在不在

Repeat


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每个人在恋爱中，在最甜蜜的时候，会给对方许下承诺，每个人在那时候都会相信承诺。

　　当一个人要背弃一段感情的时候，他根本不会想起自己曾经许下的承诺，这不足为奇，一点也不奇怪。仔细想想，我们曾经努力地去追求一段感情，追求一个人对自己的忠诚，但当你越以为这一切越真的时候，就是最危险的时候，你已经打开你的心，别人只要轻轻地就可以伤害到你。

　　相信一段感情，相信自己，相信你的另一半，一点都没有错，但人毕竟是个体，每个人都有自己的想法，你永远没有办法完完全全把握一个人的想法。

　　他要离开你，他要背弃你，他要忘记自己的承诺，一点也不用惊奇，他总会觉得这样做是对的，他有自己的想法，他有自己一套的解释。

　　不用追究，根本你就没有办法去追究。

　　我们要背弃一个人的时候，千万别选他在最重要的时候去背弃他；我们要背弃一个人的时候，千万别在他最失意的时候去背弃他；我们要背弃一个人的时候，千万别在他为大家将来已经作好准备的时候去背弃他；我们要背弃一个人的时候，千万别在他面前说这个决定是对双方都好的决定；我们要背弃一个人的时候，千万别在他对你许下真正的承诺的时候去背弃他；我们要背弃一个人的时候，千万别在他认为可以为你牺牲一切的时候去背弃他；我们要背弃一个人的时候，千万别令他觉得是你自己的错；我们要背弃一个人的时候……………………

　　但往往我们要背弃一个人的时候，我们一定会选择这些情况下去背弃他，去伤害他，他根本不需要你解释，根本不需你要同情，根本不需你假惺惺的关心，尽管这些关心都是真的，但你别这样，只会令他更加地痛心。

　　要背弃一个人的时候，最好令他一次个伤心透，结果有两个，一个是他伤心过后，勇敢起来，重新面对这个事实，重新振作起来；另一个是他伤心过后，永远都不能接受这个事实，意志消沉。

　　你根本就可以大声地说：“我根本不想看见他这个样子，希望他可以坚强地面对这一切。”根本就是废话，如果世界有这么两全其美的事，世上就不会有这么多伤心的人，你要伤害他，你要他受害后振作，你当你自己是什么，如果你要下定决定去伤害一个人的时候，你就最好接受他受伤后的一切结果，如果你做不到，你就最好不要去伤害人。

　　根本就是一派胡言。

11 Jan 11 - Korea Day 7

One thing which I must mentioned here. The korea we travelled for the 7 days was South Korea. I had been confused between North and South. Now I know. North Korea is a poor country. Poor people of North Korea, following some leader who promised them that he would create a very good country but it turned out very bad. People living there does not have contact with the rest of the world and they are very poor. Hmm..wondering maybe they are the most happy people? cos they do not know what the rest of the country is like and they just live in their own world...


Ok, Last day of the trip.
Our flight was around 8pm and we still had the whole day to wander around.
Hmm..it was different from itinerary. Suppose to have some place to visit before flying back but the tour guide had packed all into 6 days and we were given choice to join additional tour by paying 20,000 won on day 7.


We got no choice but to join the tour as we had to check out hotel by 12 nn.
We went to shopping again.
Covered 2 area.


Sinchon


Located in Northwest Seoul, Sinchon is home to a number of private universities, earning the area its nickname ‘University Streets of Sinchon’. In particular, the street between Sinchon Station (Subway Line 2) and Edae (abbreviated for Ewha Women’s University) is a shopper’s paradise, offering a wide range of styles and prices. The collection of trendy stores, bars, and delicious cuisine draws out throngs of college students and other freethinkers year-round, making this one of the most creative and energetic places in the city.

Bought some Etude product, hmm..here, these cosmetic shops were served by China girl. They spoke Chinese so we did not had problem choosing our items. However, they gave us very wrong info on how to use the product. Hmm...when I asked them 2nd time on the usage, they would tell me different thing. Not much samples given also.


Bought Laneige product from "Aritaum". Did not see any Laniege shops but see this "Aritaum" selling the products. I was so happy cos Cendrine had asked me to buy some product for her. The product was also cheaper than Singapore. I bought the sleeping pack, yoghurt pack, and the salesgirl, China girl again, was so good, she gave us a lot of samples! She was so friendly. Should have taken a photo with her! Such a nice girl.


Hmm, this place was quite nice to shop, but we did not have time after purchasing our facial product.


Next, we went to Myeong - Dong

Myeong-dong is one of the busiest places in Seoul and is among Korea’s premier shopping destinations. Over 1 million shoppers pass through this area each and every day. Located in the heart of Seoul, Myeong-dong market has been a witness to Korea’s tumultuous modern-day history as a center of city politics, economy, and culture. To international visitors, Myeong-dong is a stunning shopping district with countless shops and restaurants. Its wild popularity has led to similar shopping districts springing up all across the country.

Our lunch at Myeong Dong..We had problem communicating what we wanted here. Lucky, some china people working here and she came out from kitchen to take our order.

It was snowing heavily! Very fast, all was covered with white snow.

Basically, this was like Orchard road? There were small shops around also. A lot of accessories shops, you can also find faceshop, other cosmestic shops here. Here, we bought a BB cream from Faceshop. My niece said this particular BB cream, her friend tried on half of her face and immediately able to view instant lift on the side of her face which she applied. Is it so good?

This snoopy was actually from some restaurant. After taking photo, it would point to some restaurant with dog sign.

Bought 2 Longchamp bags from the airport with 20% discount. My niece's friends had asked her to buy for them as they said it was cheaper to buy in Korea's airport. She really bought a lot, not for herself but for her friends..Without discount, it was already cheaper, with discount it was a bonus!

10 Jan 11 - Korea Day 6

Day 6, Went to Face shop duty free cosmetic shop to purchase Odbo product. Hmm..no hard sell..but most of us bought the product cos we tried it previously to be quite good.

Nami Island, the fliming site of the popular korean drama serial, "Winter Sonata". This was where the 2 main character fall in love.

Boat ride to Nami island.

Ice...

Wishes again...

Warm..

Famous tree path from the scene..

Decorations from unwanted items..

This couple took so long to have their photo taken...

Our turn...haha

3 Musketeers

Deco using empty bottles..

Can you see me?

Paper cups on christmas tree...

Even the water turned ice.

Our lunch.

Ice gallery. Made our own cup.

Pretty Instructor + tour guide

Starting out with a cube of ice

Incomplete..

Can see that I was trying very hard right? Messy hair...

Mum was so smart in this and was the 1st to complete and got her F&N orange drink.

We still struggling actually..

Finally completed.

Orange drink....in my cup...

Can you see the handle?

Next visit the ice gallery..

Piano..with seat...I sat on it and it did not break! haha

Flower vase..

Mini toilet, size for kids?

Ice computer work station

Kitchen?

Ice cafe.

Leave a note...I left mine too!

Apgujeong and Cheongdam-dong are the main shopping districts for the rich in Gangnam.

The tour guide told us that the Korea famous people, actor, actress, etc..like to come here. He said maybe we could see some. Hmm..I did not recognise even if i see one...perhaps the one below?

This place was boring. Nothing to shop, only a lot of cafe. Or..the rich comes here for plastic surgery? There were a few we saw...Well, so we went to this "Homestead" for some hot drinks.

One of the rich?

We ordered this...SUPER NICE! Pancake with ice cream, blueberry sauce?

Cousin and niece ordered this.

Our drink..hot chocolate..NICE!

Zoo coffee?

Parking...

Our dinner...